For most of my life, I believed growing old meant gradually disappearing. Not all at once, not dramatically—just quietly, piece by piece. Friends pass away. Children move on. The phone rings less and less. Eventually the only sound left in the house is the ticking of the hallway clock.
By the time I reached ninety-one, that was the life I had settled into.
My husband had been gone for decades. The children we raised had moved across the country, building lives and families of their own. At first there were visits. Then there were phone calls. Eventually there were only occasional messages. And then even those stopped.
Birthdays became simple affairs: a cupcake from the grocery store, the television murmuring in the background, and the quiet feeling that another year had passed with no one noticing.....