My son works hard, and his wife is a stay-at-home mom. Every time I visited, I saw her on her phone while the baby cried, and yesterday I found my son cooking one-handed with the baby on his hip. My daughter-in-law was in bed, and frustration got the best of me. I walked into her room and said sharply, “Must be nice to nap while my son raises your child.” She looked up with red, tired eyes and whispered, “I’m trying.” She didn’t defend herself, and something about her expression left me uneasy.
That evening, after the baby slept, my son walked me outside. His voice was heavy. “Mom, she’s not sleeping because she’s lazy. The doctor thinks she may have postpartum depression. She barely eats or rests. She stays in bed because she’s terrified she’ll mess something up.” His words hit me hard. Suddenly, everything I’d judged—the phone, the mess, the distant look—looked different.....
