The night I got the text from Mom about a “special family dinner,” I nearly choked on my microwaved ramen. It had been ages since we’d all gotten together, and even longer since it felt like my parents actually wanted me there.
I love my family, but being the middle child is like being the bologna in a sandwich where everyone’s fighting over the bread. I stared at my phone, thumb hovering over the keyboard. Part of me wanted to make up some lame excuse, but then I thought about Tina and Cameron, my perfect older sister and my can-do-no-wrong little brother. They’d be there, basking in Mom and Dad’s approval, like always. And I’d remain the perpetual afterthought if I didn’t show up.
“Count me in,” I typed, hitting send before I could change my mind.
Mom replied instantly: “Great! Le Petit Château, 7 p.m. next Friday. Don’t be late!”
Le Petit Château. Fancy. I whistled low, already mentally tallying up my savings. This wasn’t going to be cheap, but maybe it was a sign things were changing. Maybe they actually wanted to spend time with me, Jennifer the Forgettable.
That Friday, I arrived at the restaurant ten minutes early, feeling nervous. Just as I was about to go in, Mom and Dad showed up. Mom was all smiles, while Dad wore his usual concerned expression. Inside, we found a cozy table, and soon after, Tina and Robert joined us. Tina looked stunning, as always, making me feel like a potato by comparison. Finally, Cameron arrived, late as usual, complaining about traffic.
Now we were all settled, and Mom wasted no time in making me feel insignificant.
“So, Jennifer,” Mom said, peering at me over her menu, “how’s work going? Still at that little marketing firm?”
I nodded, trying not to bristle at the “little” part. “Yeah, it’s good. We just landed a pretty big client, actually. I’m heading up the campaign.”
“Oh, that’s nice,” Mom said, her attention already drifting back to Tina, who was regaling Dad with tales of her son’s latest soccer game.
The atmosphere improved while we ate—until the bill arrived. That’s when my parents dropped the bomb. “Jennifer, we’ll cover everyone else’s meals, but you can pay for yours,” Dad said casually, as if it were the most normal thing in the world.
I stared at him, stunned. “What? Why?”
Mom chimed in, “Well, you’re the only one who’s single and doesn’t have kids. You don’t have the same expenses as the rest of us.”
The sting of unfairness hit hard. Here I was, the only one who had shown up early, the only one who had actually achieved something at work, and I was the one being singled out. The resentment brewed inside me, and I knew this was a moment I wouldn’t forget.
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