So instead of reacting out of frustration or fear, I responded with a calm but firm heart. I told him that I love him and believe in his ability to earn what he wants. I explained that giving in to pressure wouldn’t help either of us grow.
Setting that boundary didn’t mean turning away from him—it meant showing up in a way that encourages real adult development. He needs to build his own life, and I want to support that in healthy, honest ways—not with handouts, but with guidance and belief in his potential.
This moment wasn’t just about a car. It was about trust, maturity, and standing on our own two feet—even when it’s tough. And I chose to meet it not with fear, but with love.