When I divorced my husband of 12 years, I was so depressed. My friend Ava took me in. She saved my life. 8 years later, I ran into my ex. The first thing he asked: “Are you still friends with Ava?” I nodded. He smirked. He said, “So you still don’t know that she’s the one who ruined our marriage?” I froze when he revealed that the woman he’d had a brief affair with—the one that led to our divorce—was Ava. It turns out Ava had felt so guilty for destroying my marriage that she tried to make it up to me. She wanted to do something good, so she made sure I was okay and asked me to move into her house. My whole reality crumbled. Never in a million years would I have suspected that, behind my back, she was with my husband—while pretending to be the perfect friend. Now, I’ve lost my trust in everyone.
Story 2:

I had two people who I thought were really good friends. One day, I was hanging out with one of them, and we were about to go out, so she was fixing her makeup. Being too busy to text our other friend about our plans, she asked me to do it. While texting, I accidentally scrolled up into their previous messages and saw them talking absolute trash about me. They were making fun of things I had said, sharing my pictures and mocking them, and just all sorts of mean-spirited stuff. I never brought it up. Thankfully, we later had a falling out, and I don’t associate with them anymore. © margaret0619 / Reddit

Story 3:

I had a close friend I vented to about everything—work, relationships, family. He always listened, never judged. But then people I barely knew started repeating details from my life. Turns out, he was sharing my stories to build connections with others. It made him look wise and thoughtful. He never used names, but the stories were clearly mine. When I confronted him, he acted like it wasn’t a big deal. It felt like he was using my life as his personal PR. After that, I stopped telling him anything personal.

Story 4:

I had a coworker who always offered to help me with projects. She’d bring me coffee, offer to take on extra tasks, even complimented my work to our manager. I thought she was just incredibly kind and supportive. Then I got passed over for a promotion I’d been working toward for a year. I later found out she had been documenting my mistakes and quietly taking credit for joint tasks. Turns out, all that help was just part of a strategy. She wanted the promotion and played the long game perfectly. She got the job, and I learned to pay closer attention.

Story 5:

Our neighbor always brought cookies, checked our mail, and even mowed part of our lawn. We thought he was just a nice older man with extra time. But then he started suggesting how we should park, handle trash, even when to turn off lights. It slowly felt like we were being managed. Later, we found out he was running for the HOA board. He admitted he wanted to “make the neighborhood more presentable.” All that kindness was just groundwork. Not creepy—just calculated. He got elected, and we realized it had been the plan all along.