When Mandy asked me to watch her kids for a few hours, I didn’t think twice. But hours turned into a shocking phone call: my husband and his sister were already boarding a flight to Mexico. No discussion. No warning. Just me, two kids, and a week-long betrayal I never agreed to.
It started with a text around midday. I was checking some data on one of my spreadsheets when my phone chimed. My SIL’s name popped up with a message that made me stop everything.
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“Hey! Emergency. Can you grab the kids from school today? Just until I finish something. Thank you!!”
Emergency?
My stomach dipped and my mind immediately jumped to worst-case scenarios — was one of the kids sick? Had something happened to her?
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I texted back immediately. “Of course! Everything okay?”
Her reply came fast. “Yeah, just swamped. You’re a lifesaver!”
Relief flooded through me. Just busy. Nothing major.
Mandy’s two kids — Ellie, six, and Jake, a wildly energetic three-year-old — were sweet.
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A handful, sure, but sweet. I worked from home, and my afternoon was light. Picking them up, grabbing snacks, and hanging out until Mandy swung by after dinner? No big deal.
I even thought it might be fun, and it was, at first. I settled the kids on the sofa with a cute Ghibli movie and their snacks, then finished up my work for the day.
By 7 p.m., the fun had worn off.
Ellie was sprawled on the living room floor, coloring with an intensity that made me nervous, while Jake was in the middle of what could only be described as a full-blown toddler meltdown.
His tiny fists pounded against the floor. Tears streaked his chubby cheeks, his furious little voice shrieking, “I WANT THE BLUE CRAYON!”
There was no blue crayon.
Not anymore, anyway — he’d snapped it in half an hour ago.
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I sighed, rubbing my temples. “Jake, buddy, it’s just a crayon. We have other colors.”
“NOOOOO!” he wailed, throwing himself onto the carpet like a tragic Victorian child. “I want the blue one!”
Ellie, without looking up, muttered, “Just give him the broken one. He doesn’t care.”
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I shot her a look. “That’s not how tantrums work.”
Meanwhile, Mandy? Radio silence.
No texts. No calls. Nothing.
I tried to stay calm. Maybe she’d gotten caught up in whatever “emergency” had pushed her to ask me to pick up the kids in the first place.
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She might’ve lost track of time, or maybe her phone had died.
By 8 p.m., I wasn’t so sure. I paced the kitchen, my phone clutched in my hand, staring at the unanswered messages.
Me: Hey! Just checking in. Kids are getting sleepy.
Me (30 mins later): Hey, you coming soon?
Nothing.
Finally, I called my husband, Ryan.
He picked up on the third ring, and before I could even say hello, I heard the unmistakable sound of airport announcements blaring in the background.
“Ryan, why are you at the airport? Never mind, you can tell me later. Have you heard from Mandy? She asked me to pick up the kids earlier and now she isn’t answering my texts.”
“Oh, hey,” Ryan said, like I’d just caught him grabbing milk at the grocery store. “Yeah, so about that… Mandy is with me. We’re just about to board our flight.”
“Excuse me? Your flight?” I replied.
“Yeah, we’re headed to Mexico! You know Mandy really needed a break. We’ll be back in a week. Thanks for watching the kids! You’re amazing. Love you!”
And just like that, he hung up.
I stood there, the phone still pressed to my ear, my jaw hanging open in disbelief.
A week.
Not a few hours. A whole freaking week! They didn’t even ask me… they didn’t even tell me!
If I hadn’t called, when would they have let me know they’d conned me into babysitting Mandy’s kids? Would they have sent me a postcard from Cancun? Or maybe tagged me on a social media post showing them outside a hotel in Cozumel?
I dropped into a chair as the audacity of their actions hit me with full force. They literally booked the trip, packed their bags, and left the country without telling me.
Ellie glanced up from her drawing. “Where’s Mommy?”
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“She’s… gone away for a few days with Uncle Ryan,” I muttered. “You two will be staying with me until she comes home.”
Ellie scrunched her face. “But she didn’t say good-bye…”
Jake sniffed. “I want Mommy. I want to go home!”
And then he burst into the most heartbreaking, furious sobs.
I sighed, picked him up, and quickly set him back down when he flailed at me with his little fists.
Ellie started crying too, and for the next while, we all just sat in the living room, feeling sorry for ourselves.
The next few days were a blur of chaos.
Ellie and Jake were great kids, but they were still kids, and they were as thrown by this situation as I was.
Full-time, no-warning, unpaid childcare while juggling my job? Not exactly a dream gig.
Mornings were the worst. Getting Ellie and Jake out the door for school was like herding caffeinated squirrels.
Jake fought me every single morning when I buckled him into his car seat, twisting, kicking, and shrieking like I was strapping him into a medieval torture device.
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Ellie, on the other hand, insisted on wearing her glitter-covered princess dress to school.
When I told her no? A meltdown so dramatic I expected an Oscar nomination.
At home, the noise was nonstop.
Sibling fights over who got the blue cup. Screaming matches over who touched whose toy. At one point, I caught Jake trying to flush Ellie’s Barbie down the toilet while she jumped in the corridor, screaming, “YOU’RE A VILLAIN!”
And the messes! Cereal dumped onto the floor like it was confetti. Sticky handprints everywhere. A couch cushion mysteriously missing.
The laundry? I was drowning in it. It piled up like a mountain range, spilling out of baskets, taunting me every time I walked past it.
Meanwhile, Ryan and Mandy were living their best lives, and flaunting it online.
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Their Instagram stories were a never-ending highlight reel of luxury.
Mandy, lounging by the pool, drink in hand, or Ryan, grinning at the camera with a plate of gourmet food. Stylish photos of margaritas, beach selfies, and spa days mocked me every time I opened the app.
And the captions? Those were salt in my open wounds.
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“Finally relaxing! ☀️🍹”
“Much-needed escape! 😍🌴”
“Zero stress!!!”
Zero stress… that must be nice.
Every new post made my resentment fester. By day two, I snapped.
It was lunchtime, and I was hanging on by a thread when I came up with my plan.
Jake was in his high chair, screaming at the top of his lungs, hurling mac and cheese across the room like a tiny, enraged catapult. Ellie was at the table, shrieking back at him, her face scrunched in anger.
“STOP THROWING FOOD!” I yelled, my voice cracking.
Jake responded by grabbing a fistful of macaroni and hurling it straight at me.
I looked down at myself — cheese sauce splattered on my sweater, noodles stuck to me like bad art.
The kitchen was a disaster zone. Plates knocked over. Spilled juice pooling on the counter. Crumbs everywhere.
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And something inside me broke.
I stood there, sticky, exhausted, my ears ringing from the noise, and thought: I can’t do this.
Then a thought struck me. A petty, beautiful thought.
I picked up my phone and hit record.
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On day four, Ryan and Mandy FaceTimed me from the beach, and they were furious.
“WHAT DID YOU DO?!” Ryan yelled. “TAKE IT DOWN! RIGHT NOW!”
Mandy was nearly crying. “Seriously! Everyone’s commenting on our posts! People are calling me a bad mom! Fix it! Delete it NOW!”
I took a deep breath and smiled.
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After the mac and cheese incident, I’d recorded every disastrous minute of my impromptu babysitting. I’d then edited it into a montage interspersed with Ryan and Mandy’s vacation stories.
Then I’d posted it to my private Instagram, just for friends and family, with the caption: When your husband and his sister leave the country and forget to mention you’re now her free nanny. Worst surprise ever.
It exploded.
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Comments poured in:
“Wait… they left YOU with the kids? For a week? Without asking??”
“Why didn’t they hire a sitter?”
“Why are they vacationing without you?”
And now, Ryan and Mandy were getting roasted on their posts by family and friends who’d seen the video.
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“Oh, you mean the video?” I said. “No problem. I’ll take it down right after you book a flight home to relieve me. Otherwise, I’m just getting started.”
They stammered, sputtered, and hung up. They had no choice but to come home early now.
When they arrived, I handed Mandy her kids, packed my things, and moved out to stay with a friend.
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Ryan tried to backtrack. “Come on, babe. It was just a misunderstanding!”
I delivered the final blow. “No. A misunderstanding is forgetting to grab milk. This? This was a betrayal.”
The video? Still up. The comments? Still rolling. Me? Sleeping better than I have in years, with zero surprise babysitting shifts in sight./By
