It’s some years since we lost legendary actress and singer Doris Day who pa:ss:ed away at the age of 97 after becoming one of the biggest stars during the Golden Age of Hollywood.

In addition to appearing in almost 30 movies, she released more than 650 songs between 1947 and 1967 and received many awards for her dedication to music and movies including the Presidential Medal of Freedom.

The much-loved actress and singer pa:ssed away in 2019 but recently a close friend revealed that she didn’t want a funeral, memorial, or grave marking.

But why? Let’s find out.

There are so many reasons why Doris Day is loved: he talent, her love for animals, and her humility.

In her 50-year career, Doris was well-loved and highly regarded for her film work. She made her name after starring in such movies as Pillow Talk, Love Me or Leave Me, and The Man Who Knew Too Much.

Though the 97-year-old married four times, she only had one child. Terry Mulcher, Day’s son via first husband Al Jorden, died in 2004 of melanoma.

Apart from achieving fame on the silver screen, Day was also a prominent animal rights activist. She was a very compassionate person who fought for animals without a voice.

Doris was also a Grammy-winning singer.

Her songs Secret Love, Sentimental Journey, and Que Sera Sera were all inducted into the Grammy Hall of Fame, while her work with animals culminated in the formation of the Doris Day Animal Foundation.

Doris Day sadly passed away at her home in Carmel Valley, California in 2019. She contracted pneumonia and her d::ea::th was announced by her charity, the Doris Day Animal Foundation which added that as per the star’s request there would be no funeral services, grave marker, or other public memorials.

Instead, she was cremated and had her ashes scattered.

As per her close friend and manager Bob Bashara, she didn’t want to discuss the prospect of a funeral because she struggled with dea:t:h.

And there was a genuine reason for her final wishes.

“She didn’t like d:eat:h, and she couldn’t be with her animals if they had to be put down. She had difficulty accepting death,” he said in a 2019 interview with People.

“I’d say we need to provide for her dogs [after she died], and she’d say, ‘I don’t want to think about it’ and she said, ‘Well, you just take care of them,’” recalls Bashara.

“She had several when her will was written, and she wanted to be sure they were taken care of. She didn’t like to talk about the dogs d_ying.”

From the early 70s Day was an avid campaigner for animal rights denouncing the wearing of fur and setting up the Doris Day Animal Foundation.

She auctioned more than 1,000 of her possessions raising $3 million in 2020 for the cause and even helped to set up a Horse Rescue and Adoption Center, which helps abused and neglected horses, in Texas.

Brought up Catholic, Day was a practicing Christian Scientist after marrying producer Martin Melcher.

Her only child Terrence “Terry” Paul Jorden was born as a result of her first marriage to trombonist Al Jorden who she met when she was 16. Jorden later changed his name to Terrence Paul Melcher when he was adopted by Day’s third husband film producer Martin Melcher.

Day “drifted away” from organized religion after Melcher passed away in 1968, Bashara told People, but remained “a spiritual person.”

“She believed in God, and she thought her voice was God-given,” he says. “She would say, ‘God gave me a voice, and I just used it.’”

In the early 70s, Day retired from acting but did return for two TV shows. Then in 1985 she hosted her own television talk show “Doris Day’s Best Friends”, on the Christian Broadcasting Network which ran for a year.

According to her friend and manager Bashara, he remains unsure as to why Day was reluctant to have a funeral, but explains, “I think it was because she was a very shy person.”

He shared Day knew her fans loved her from the letters she received but never understood why so many people loved her.

“She never let her celebrity affect her and who she was, and she was always the little girl from Cincinnati who was extraordinarily talented and went out in the world and did what she loved to do despite herself,” he says.

She was cremated and had her ashes scattered.

Her estate was donated to charity.